To Curse or Not to Curse

I recently read a blog post regarding the overuse of the F-word in many romance novels being published both digitally and in paperback format. Having written historical romance fiction up to this point, it wasn't something I dealt with in my own writing. As I'm currently working on my first contemporary romance novel, it start me thinking about that ultimate "bad word."

I think that word has its place in certain books.  In Erotica, the use of F--- is expected whereas if it's found in an inspirational romance, I definitely think the reader would sit up and take notice and may even be offended by its use.

That being said, I think in the right context the F-word would be accepted. You wouldn't expect a tough military/police officer/firefighter hero to say "dang" when something goes wrong. Nope, they're gonna use the "big" word and not be apologetic about it. To expect otherwise would be completely unrealistic. But I have to admit, I don't like the word being said by the heroine regardless of her profession. I can't explain why it seems more acceptable when said by a man other than maybe it's a product of my upbringing -- I was taught a "lady" doesn't use such language.

Will I use the F-word in my current manuscript? Yes, but only if it fits the story and character who says it.

What I'm Reading Wednesday

This week I'm reading Barefoot In The Rain by Roxanne St. Claire.  My sister raved over the book and offered to lend me her copy. While I didn't realize it was the second book in a series, I'm quite enjoying it and don't feel lost at all that I haven't read the first book, Barefoot In The Sand.

Barefoot In The Rain deals with domestic abuse and Alzheimer's Disease. Both are handled very well with great care and sensitivity. I haven't finished the book yet, I'm only about three-fourths the way through it. Even though I haven't finished it, I would recommend it to anyone looking for a great read.

Writing Time

First, sorry about the lack of posts last week. A personal matter came up with no forewarning so I didn't have time to schedule posts ahead of time.

This led me to start thinking about how life can sometimes interrupt our regular writing and promotional routines. We all have responsibilities within our daily lives that at times will take precedence over everything else. Those of us who work outside the home and have limited time for writing and promotion may find that days go by before we can find the time to sit down and write.

I started thinking how I could prevent that. Of course, there will always be times when I just can't get to the computer due to a pressing responsibility, but how can I keep on track?  Here are a few things I'm going to try the next time something comes up that throws my writing routine out the window:

1. Write a few blogs and keep them saved on my computer so if something like last week comes up, I'll have a few posts ready.
2. I keep a notebook and pen in my purse. Use those to jot down ideas, settings, outlines of scenes, or snippets of dialogue when I have a few free minutes while I'm waiting in the doctor's office, the hospital waiting room, etc.  This way those things don't disappear into the ether and I have them when I can get back to my routine.
3. Post on Facebook (and Twitter once I figure out how to use it effectively) from my phone while I'm doing all that waiting.

I'd love to hear how you handle life's interruptions to your writing time.

Posts

Sorry, there will be no posts this week - 7/8 thru 7/12/13. I will be back on Monday, 7/15. Thanks for understanding.

Katherine

Happy 4th of July

I know I'm a little early today and I'll be a day late on Friday, but I will be offline for the next few day so...

 

Happy 4th of July!

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Solitude

My day job can be noisy with various conversations taking place outside my office, ringing phones, the clickety clack of keyboards, and sounds of the printer and photocopier working continuously.  While I don't require quiet when I'm writing or revising, (I listen to classical music) I do feel that I need a bit of solitude every day. Just 15 minutes helps center me, allowing me to wind down at the end of the day.

I sometimes use the time to think about my WIP, about the plot, dialogue, and layering within scenes. Or I use the time to think about what I want to accomplish the next day both in the day job and in my writing career.

But most of the time, I try to use the time to just...be. To sit quietly and breathe, to listen to the birds, the wind through the wind chimes next door, the buzz of the cicadas, to empty my mind of all the things I need to do and the worries that come with daily life. It's amazing how doing this changes my whole outlook when I've had a bad day or am feeling particularly stressed about something.

Maybe Mary Chapin Carpenter and I have more in common that I would have ever guessed.